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The world is moving toward digitisation whether we like it or not. And the children growing up inside that world will move with it. The real question has never been whether children engage with screens. It is how.
There is a temptation, especially among parents in Pakistan, to treat screen time like something to be rationed or avoided. That instinct comes from a genuinely good place. But here is what it misses: a child who is kept away from technology does not stay protected. They fall behind. If a child does not get enough experience with digital tools, if they do not become comfortable with the environment forming around them, there will be a learning gap that no amount of catching up will fully close. Because everything, from education to work to communication to creation, is eventually getting digitised.
Resistance toward technology does not create safety. It creates gaps.
This is what shapes the approach at The Way Forward, Pakistan’s alternative online school for ages 8 to 12. The goal is not less screen time. The goal is intentional use: taking the digital consumption that is going to happen anyway and directing it toward something meaningful, something that actually serves the child. Not shunning children from the digital age, but rerouting their engagement toward something that will benefit them in the longer run.
To be clear: excessive, unstructured screen use can absolutely create problems for children. Concerns about sleep disruption, shortening attention spans, and digital dependency from passive scrolling are real and worth taking seriously. But focusing only on the number of hours misses a more important question: what is the child actually doing during those hours?
A growing body of research now frames problematic device use not as a failure of individual willpower but as a structural issue, one driven by persuasive design, variable rewards, and algorithms engineered to keep users passive and scrolling.
The problem is not the screen itself. It is what the screen is being used for and how.
The answer, then, is not to remove the device. It is to change the relationship with it. To turn a child from a passive consumer into someone who knows how to use a tool actively, deliberately, and with awareness of what they are doing and why.
This distinction matters enormously for children in Pakistan. A child who grows up scrolling passively and one who grows up creating, building, and thinking alongside technology will enter the same job market but with fundamentally different capabilities. Screen time for kids in Pakistan is not going to decrease. What can change is the quality of that engagement.
At TWF, children learn to work with AI as an assistant, something that extends what they can do rather than something that does the thinking for them. They learn to use technology to go beyond what a human can achieve alone. That is a fundamentally different posture from sitting in front of a screen in passive mode, being fed content. It is conscious digital use. It is digital literacy in its truest form.
“The idea is always to move with technology and adapt to it, because resistance leads to more gaps than one can imagine.”
This does not mean removing everything else from a child’s life. Children at TWF also have free play, social time, and space to simply be children. Social connection, laughter, and unstructured time are not sacrificed. They are part of a balanced life. Because balance is the actual outcome we are working toward, not screen abstinence.
When a child spends two hours watching videos, they have consumed content. When a child spends two hours building something, solving a problem, or learning to use a tool with a specific purpose, they have developed a capability. Both involve a screen. The outcomes could not be more different.
Consider two children. One spends two hours watching short-form videos, moving from one clip to the next with no particular purpose. Another spends two hours using an AI tool to research an idea, build a simple presentation, and explain it to a parent or peer. Both accumulated the same screen time. The developmental outcome is completely different. One practised passive consumption. The other practised thinking, organising, and communicating. That distinction is not about limiting screens. It is about what the screen is pointed at.
Pakistani parents who are thinking carefully about their child’s future are already asking the right question. They are not asking how to keep their child away from technology. They are asking how to ensure their child knows how to use it. That shift in framing is exactly what TWF was built around.
The children who will thrive in the world being built around them will not be the ones whose parents kept them furthest from a screen. They will be the ones who learned, early and with genuine guidance, how to make technology work for them rather than the other way around.
If your child is between 8 and 12 years old, the habits they build around technology now will shape how they engage with it for the rest of their lives. An online school in Pakistan that teaches passive consumption, or one that simply delivers traditional lessons through a screen, is not solving this problem. It is replicating it in a different format.
A genuinely different approach starts by asking what a child should be able to do with technology, not just how much of it they should be allowed. At TWF, that question sits at the centre of how we design learning. Digital literacy is not a subject. It is built into how children work, think, and solve problems every day.
The future will not reward children for avoiding technology. It will reward those who understand it, question it, and know how to use it wisely. The challenge for parents is not keeping technology out of a child’s life. It is helping them build the judgment to use it well.
